There are lots of places to meet women: bars, coffee shops, work, college, speed dating events, through friends and family, grocery stores, the gym, etc.

However, there is one place that is without a doubt the easiest place to meet women: online dating websites.

Not all online dating sites are created equal though. The Best Online Dating Sites

There are many reasons why online dating is the easiest way to meet women:

1.    You can meet women at any time of day or night.
2.    You’ll come across women you never would have met while going to the same old places you always go to.
3.    You can quickly meet many women at once, rather than meeting only one woman at a time.
4.    It allows you to find out exactly which women are interested in you from the start.
5.    It doesn’t require very much time, money or effort.
6.    There is a never ending supply of women on dating sites.
7.    If you travel a lot, you can have women waiting for you when your plane touches down.
8.    You don’t have to deal with interruptions like you do at bars.
9.    The competition online sucks, which means you can dominate pretty easily once you write a few good emails.
10.    You’re able to get a better feel for a woman before meeting her in person, that way if she’s not what you’re looking for personality-wise, you don’t have to waste your time meeting her.
11.    Women on dating sites are single and actively looking for men to date!
12.    It’s very low pressure. You don’t have to approach like you would in a bar, so if you hate doing that, you’ll never have to again.
13.    It allows you to consistently meet many women, day in and day out, without feast or famine cycles.

The Top Three Reasons Why Online Dating Is The Easiest Way To Meet Women

The list of advantages online dating offers could go on forever, but here are the top three reasons why online dating is the easiest way to meet women:

•    There are so many single women
•    Saves you time, money and energy
•    Dating on autopilot

Let’s talk about these topics in more detail.

There Are So Many Single Women

One of the best things about online dating is how many women there are. In every city there are scores of very attractive women in every age group, and all those women are actively looking for men to meet and date.

When you think about it, it’s amazing technology exists that wrangles up so many attractive single women looking to meet men in one place.

Not too long ago, the only ways to meet women were through friends and family or running into a woman while you were out.

Today though, you don’t even have to leave your house to meet women.

It could be raining out or freezing cold and you can still meet women online without ever having to leave your house.

When the weather is crappy, a lot of women won’t go out. The women you have a chance to meet at a bar are thus limited.

That goes for coffee shops or book stores too. The only women you can meet there are the few women who decided to go there that day.

Another great thing about the women on dating sites is you won’t waste your time talking to a woman for twenty minutes at a bar or party to find out she’s married with two kids and is just out for the night.

At online dating sites nearly all of the women are single, or at the very least looking to meet someone new.

Contrast that with going to bars or meeting women anywhere else. Some of the women there will be single and a lot more will have boyfriends or husbands.

The number of attractive women at those locations will of course only be a small percentage of the single women there too.

Online you’re dealing with much bigger numbers of women and are thus able to find more attractive women.

Online Dating Saves You Time, Money, and Energy

Back in college I used to go out four to six nights a week. My friends and I would go mostly to bars, but occasionally we would go to clubs too.

My house was pretty far from a lot of the places we would go to, which meant a half-hour to hour minimum of driving each night.

Beyond spending an arm and a leg on gas, all that driving was very time consuming. The time I spent driving was time I couldn’t spend doing something else.

There were many other costs too, like parking, cover charges, drinks, etc.

When I meet women online I don’t have to drive anywhere or spend any extra money. I could meet women on my laptop in my living room ten minutes after waking up and the women wouldn’t know the difference.

Now, I don’t waste my entire week going out just to meet women.

That is great because I simply don’t have the time to go out as much as I did in college.

Rather than having to go out just to meet women to date, when I’m out now, it’s on dates.

That allows me to completely skip all that time consuming and often boring small talk that accompanies meeting women at social gatherings.

There’s still time for banter, it’s just done while on dates now instead of bantering with a woman just to get her to go on a date. Big difference.

Dating On Autopilot

Click a few buttons, copy and paste, meet women. Dating doesn’t get any easier that that.

Sounds crazy, huh? But it’s not. That’s the reality you have on dating sites.

When you have a few emails that women respond to, all you have to do is send those emails to women you’re interested in over and over.

When women respond they are saying, “I like you,” or at the very least, “I want to learn more about you.”

That allows you to skip over all the normal bullshit you have to go through at other venues for meeting women.

When you have a proven system, you can use it again and again to meet as many women as you want. Once you’ve put together some good emails, the women come to you almost on autopilot.

The number one benefit I love about online dating is the possibility for automation because it allows me to consistently meet so many attractive women without consuming all my time.

Rather than having to spend hours and hours out at bars, coffee shops, or book stores just to meet a few women, I spend twenty minutes online.

In twenty minutes I can email five to ten women and have dates sets up for the whole week, and I can do this week in and week out.

How Online Dating Sites Help New Guys

The benefits I listed above are huge and they apply for any guy, but if you’re just getting started on dating sites there are a lot of other benefits too.

The two biggest benefits you’ll experience if you’re new are:

•    There are lots of women to “practice” on. This allows you to make a lot of mistakes that will help you get better with women much faster.
•    You’ll quickly get feedback on what you’re doing right/wrong. You can then take what’s working for you and use it on other women. Leveraging your successes like this is what makes online dating so easy.

Make Your Dating Life Easy

Now that you know the biggest benefits online dating offers, it’s up to you to run with them.

If you’re already on a dating site or two but haven’t put in any effort, now you have an excuse to try a little harder.

Find out for yourself. You’ve got nothing to lose.

Brandon Duran

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