Meeting women online has many benefits. Once you figure it out it’s pretty easy to meet new women and it can be much quicker than meeting women at bars.

The best thing about meeting women online though is that it allows you to meet women you never would have come across otherwise.

But just as there are good things about meeting women online, there are some bad things too.

The Biggest Problem Most Guys on Dating Sites Suffer Through

The biggest problem most guys face when meeting women online is the part where they actually meet women; they just can’t seem to transition to meeting women in the real world. And that causes a lot of frustration.

For some guys, not getting any responses or phone numbers makes them angry to the point that they vent on women through email by bitching them out or calling them names.

You’ve probably even seen women state in their profile that if they don’t respond it’s not personal and you don’t have to call them names or send rude emails.

Not only will bitching women out not help you meet women (hopefully that’s obvious), it’s also unhealthy, both for the person doing the bitching and the person that receives those kinds of emails.

Why Do Those Guys Respond Like That?

So why do some guys bitch women out or call them names when they don’t get responses to their emails or phone calls?

I’m sure there are all kinds of reasons, but probably the biggest is that it’s a way to vent frustration.

There are much healthier ways to vent frustration though, such as going to the gym or jogging.

When a woman doesn’t respond to your emails or phone calls, she is not the problem, nor is she a bitch or tease. The problem is what you’re doing.

There is a lot of competition on dating sites for beautiful women. That’s not going to change.

That competition along with not getting responses from women on dating sites drives many guys to quit for good.

I’ll be completely honest, for guys who don’t get any results but keep doing the same things over and over, it might be better if they just gave up. It would save them both time and frustration.

I’m guessing you’re not the kind of guy who keeps doing the same things over and over that don’t work though.

Be Different

If what you’re doing isn’t getting you what you want, it’s time to try something different.

That could mean rewording your emails, rewriting your profile, putting different pictures on your profile, calling a woman at a different time of the day, or any other number of things.

The point is if what you’re doing is not working, and that’s frustrating you, try something different. If you keep trying new things, odds are something will work for you.

I once heard the reason most people don’t reach their goals is not that they aren’t good enough or that the competition is too great, rather it’s because most people just give up.

If you’re getting frustrated on dating sites because you aren’t getting the results you want, don’t blame women. In fact, don’t blame anyone. Simply try something different than what you’ve been trying.

Brandon Duran

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