I’ve seen several “coaches” and bloggers in the online dating niche give the advice to test your profile pictures on picture rating sites like www.HotOrNot.com to find out which pictures are your best. Testing is always a good idea because it will increase your results when done consistently and in the right way (see...

It’s official, as of July 21, 2010, Yahoo Personals (Yahoo’s online dating site) is part of the Match.com community, and is branded as “Match.com on Yahoo!.” Before the transition to the Match.com system, Yahoo Personals users were given the option to make a seamless switch to Match.com or discontinue their membership. Users who chose...

To some guys, getting good with women means being able to seduce any woman, any time, any place. That is not realistic and only makes getting better with women harder, not easier. A few years ago I found some guys on the internet that claimed to be very good with women. Some of these...

I just read an email from a woman who apologized for taking a few days to get back to me. She had been really busy at work the previous week and hadn’t logged onto the dating site during that time. When she finally logged on she found more than 40 new emails from guys!...

Your email sequence on dating sites has two objectives: to break the ice with a woman and then get her phone number. Once you have a good email sequence, you’ll get numbers every time you send out emails. Of course, not every woman will give you their number or even email you back, but...

Getting good at meeting and dating women isn’t a one-step process. It’s a series of many small incremental improvements. You’ll have a lot of victories and a lot of small defeats. Those victories and defeats will both point you in the right direction to keep you moving forward and improving your success with women....

The goal of emailing women on dating sites it to get their phone numbers, which can then lead to meeting in the real world. In this article you’ll learn what to do once you get a woman’s number, and how to transition from emailing to talking on the phone. Why Women Don’t Answer Their...

Most women look great when they’re all done up, with all their makeup on, in a little black dress, tan skin, and in 3-inch heels. That’s not how most women look most of the time though. Fine. Most guys accept and understand that. What’s hard to stomach is how drastically different women can look...

This past week I got some great questions from a reader named Droog. Before we get into Droog’s questions, I want to show him some respect for trying out something new. He read about some new techniques on this blog and then tried them out immediately. That’s how to do it! Trying new things...

Recently we talked about split testing to get more responses from women on dating sites. There is one more thing you need to do to get more responses from women – track your split tests. I’m not going to geek out on you in this article. We’re going to go over just the essentials...